The Dating Note
For the questions you ask yourself
on the drive home.
What’s on your mind?
THE UTAH EDITION · 01—10
Dating app burnout
Why do dating apps leave me feeling lonelier?
A smaller routine, clearer filters, and one real next step.
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Ghosting & mixed signals
Why did they disappear when things felt so good?
A grounded way to follow up without chasing an explanation.
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Dating after divorce
What if I’m ready for love, but afraid to start again?
A first step after divorce does not have to be a giant leap.
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Dating as a single parent
Can I make room for love without letting my kids down?
A dating plan can respect the family life you already have.
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Faith, values & compatibility
Can we build a future if our beliefs are different?
Three conversations about values that go beyond a label.
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Feeling behind
Is something wrong with me if everyone else is married?
A practical way to date without borrowing someone else’s deadline.
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First dates & second chances
Why do my first dates never turn into second dates?
Try curiosity, a real detail, and a clear invitation.
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Texting & overthinking
Why does one unread text take over my whole day?
A pause, a clearer question, and a more useful way to notice effort.
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Boundaries & availability
Why do I keep choosing people who cannot show up for me?
Name the pattern, ask clearly, and choose a boundary you can keep.
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Meeting people offline
How do I meet someone when dating apps are not for me?
One recurring activity. One friendly conversation. A manageable plan.
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